Introduction
“GENTLEMAN” is a heartfelt track by Rory Feek, featured on his 2021 solo album Gentle Man. This song marks a significant moment in Feek’s career, being part of his first solo project following the passing of his wife and musical partner, Joey Feek, in 2016. The album, released on June 18, 2021, showcases Feek’s journey through grief, healing, and his reflections on traditional values in contemporary society.
In “GENTLEMAN,” Feek delves into the theme of chivalry and the fading presence of simple acts of kindness in today’s fast-paced world. The lyrics recount a moment where a woman is surprised by a courteous gesture, highlighting how such behaviors have become rare. Feek uses this narrative to emphasize the enduring importance of respect and human connection, suggesting that these virtues are not outdated but essential for enriching our interactions and communities.
The song’s composition blends classic country and folk influences, featuring warm acoustic sounds that complement its introspective message. Feek’s sincere vocals and storytelling draw listeners into a narrative that celebrates the impact of small, considerate actions. “GENTLEMAN” serves as a reminder that true gentlemanly behavior transcends grand gestures, focusing instead on treating others with dignity and respect, regardless of societal changes.
Through “GENTLEMAN,” Rory Feek invites listeners to reflect on their daily interactions and the significance of maintaining kindness and courtesy. The song stands as a testament to the timeless appeal of genuine human decency, encouraging a return to values that foster empathy and connection in an increasingly disconnected world.
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Lyrics
I saw a pretty girl, her hands all full, headed in the store
So I stepped back, tipped my hat, and opened up the door
Just being polite, she thought it strange
She smiled at me and said, “Times have changed
Guys don’t do that kind of thing anymore”
Being a gentleman might be out of style these days
Might not be cool when being a fool is all the rage
But it’s in my blood, it’s what I know, how I was raised
Man, this is who I am
A faded jean, farmer tan, work boots, callous hand, red neck, blue collar
Hard-working gentleman
Well long story short, of course, I had to ask her out
Show her what my old-fashioned ways are all about
I still hear her laugh at me when I got down there on one knee
It’s funny ’cause the thing she loves most about me now
Is being a gentleman might be out of style these days
Might not be cool when being a fool is all the rage
But it’s in my blood, it’s what I know, how I was raised
Man, this is who I am
A faded jean, farmer tan, work boots, callous hand, red neck, blue collar
Hard-working gentleman
So I guess that’s why I’m here, telling you this, son
The time is gonna come when you’ll meet someone
Being a gentleman might be out of style these days
Might not be cool when being a fool is still all the rage
But it’s in your blood, it’s what you know, how you were raised
So son, if you can
Be a gentleman
A gentleman