Introduction
“When I’m Gone” by Joey+Rory is a poignant country ballad that has deeply resonated with listeners worldwide. Written by Sandy Lawrence, the song was inspired by her personal experience of losing her mother, aiming to provide comfort to those facing similar grief. The track was featured on Joey+Rory’s 2012 album His and Hers, and its heartfelt lyrics speak from the perspective of someone preparing their loved ones for life after their passing .
The song gained profound significance when Joey Feek was diagnosed with terminal cervical cancer in 2014. As her health declined, the lyrics took on a prophetic quality, mirroring the couple’s real-life journey. In a blog post, Rory Feek reflected on this connection, expressing gratitude for the song’s role in helping him cope with the impending loss of his wife .
The accompanying music video, filmed on the couple’s Tennessee farm, further amplifies the song’s emotional impact. In the video, Joey sings directly to Rory, offering solace and reassurance. The authenticity of their performance, underscored by Rory’s visible emotions, captures the essence of their love and the song’s message of enduring connection beyond death .
“When I’m Gone” stands as a testament to Joey+Rory’s commitment to creating music that speaks to the human experience. Its universal themes of love, loss, and hope continue to offer comfort to those navigating the complexities of grief, solidifying its place as one of the duo’s most impactful songs.
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lyrics
A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fault that weighs you down
In spite of all the funeral songs the birds will make their joyful sounds
You wonder why the earth still moves, you wonder how you’ll carry on
But you’ll be okay on that first day when I’m gone
Dusk will come with fireflies and whippoorwill and crickets call
And every star will take its place and silvery gown and purple shawl
You’ll lie down in our big bed, dread the dark and dread the dawn
But you’ll be alright on that first night when I’m gone
You will reach for me in vain
You’ll be whispering my name
As if sorrow were your friend
And this world so alien
But life will call with daffodils and morning glorious blue skies
You’ll think of me some memory and softly smile to your surprise
And even though you love me still you will know where you belong
Just give it time we’ll both be fine when I’m gone