Toby Keith – Cryin’ For Me (Wayman’s Song) ft. Arthur Thompson, Marcus Miller, Dave Koz

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“Cryin’ for Me (Wayman’s Song)” is a poignant ballad by Toby Keith, released in October 2009 as part of his album American Ride. The song serves as a heartfelt tribute to Wayman Tisdale, a former NBA player and accomplished jazz bassist who passed away on May 15, 2009, at the age of 44.

Keith and Tisdale shared a deep friendship, bonded by their mutual love for music. Their collaboration extended to Tisdale’s final album, Rebound, where Keith contributed vocals to a track. Following Tisdale’s death, Keith composed “Cryin’ for Me” as a tribute, capturing the profound sense of loss he felt. The song’s lyrics reflect on the personal grief of losing a close friend, with lines that resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of such a loss. The track features contributions from jazz musicians Dave Koz (saxophone), Marcus Miller (bass), and Arthur Thompson (drums), adding depth and emotion to the composition.

Initially, Keith intended to perform the song at Tisdale’s funeral but found himself too emotional to do so. Instead, he performed Willie Nelson’s “Angel Flying Too Close to the Ground” during the service.

“Cryin’ for Me (Wayman’s Song)” debuted at number 58 on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and peaked at number 6, becoming one of Keith’s most emotionally resonant hits. The song’s tender melody and heartfelt lyrics continue to honor Tisdale’s legacy and the enduring bond between the two friends.

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