Introduction
“Remember When” is a deeply personal and emotional ballad written and recorded by American country music star Alan Jackson. The song was released in October 2003 as the second and final single from his compilation album Greatest Hits Volume II. It quickly resonated with audiences and became one of Jackson’s most beloved and heartfelt tracks.
The song is a reflective piece that chronicles the journey of a long-term romantic relationship—from the early days of young love, through the trials and triumphs of raising children, to growing old together. Jackson drew heavily from his own life, particularly his relationship with his wife, Denise. Their story, which included separation and reconciliation, gives the lyrics an added layer of authenticity and emotional depth. “Remember When” functions not just as a love song, but as a tribute to the enduring nature of commitment and memory.
Musically, the song features a gentle arrangement with acoustic guitar, soft piano, and steel guitar that enhance its nostalgic tone. Its simple yet profound lyrics and slow tempo allow listeners to reflect on their own lives and relationships, making it a popular choice for weddings, anniversaries, and memorials.
“Remember When” reached number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and also made a significant impact on the Billboard Hot 100. The song’s success further solidified Jackson’s reputation as a master of storytelling in country music.
The official music video, directed by Don Lepore, visually complements the song’s themes with black-and-white imagery and scenes of family and togetherness. It remains a fan favorite and is often cited as one of Alan Jackson’s most touching and timeless works, showcasing his ability to craft songs that speak to universal human experiences.
Video
Lyrics
[Verse 1]
Remember when
I was young and so were you
And time stood still and love was all we knew
You were the first, so was I
We made love and then you cried
Remember when
[Verse 2]
Remember when
We vowed the vows and walked the walk
Gave our hearts, made the start, and it was hard
We lived and learned, life threw curves
There was joy, and there was hurt
Remember when
[Verse 3]
Remember when
Old ones died and the new were born
And life was changed, disassembled, rearranged
We came together, fell apart
And broke each other’s hearts
Remember when
[Instrumental Break]
[Verse 4]
Remember when
The sound of little feet
Was the music we danced to week to week
Brought back the love, we found trust
Vowed we’d never give it up
Remember when
[Verse 5]
Remember when
Thirty seemed so old
Now looking back, it’s just a stepping stone
To where we are, where we’ve been
Said we’d do it all again
Remember when
[Verse 6]
Remember when
We said when we turned gray
When the children grow up and move away
We won’t be sad, we’ll be glad
For all the life we’ve had
And we’ll remember when
[Outro]
Remember when
Remember when