Introduction
Merrill & Mary Osmond Open Up About Loss, Love, and “Troy-ing” a Little Harder
In an emotional and deeply personal interview, Merrill and Mary Osmond shared the heartbreaking journey of losing their beloved son, Troy. The pain in their voices is unmistakable as they recount the shock and grief of his passing — a moment that changed their lives forever.
“I’d heard of a broken heart,” Mary confesses, “but I didn’t know what that truly was until we lost our Troy.” The couple recalls expecting to hear his familiar voice coming through the door, his music echoing through their home — memories now carried in silence. Troy, a gifted organist who had played at sacred venues like the Tabernacle and St. John’s Cathedral in London, left behind a legacy of kindness, humility, and quiet strength.
“You’re not supposed to bury your kids,” Merrill says through tears. He was the one who discovered Troy had not risen for work that fateful morning. That moment, they both agree, was the most difficult of their lives.
But from the depths of sorrow, the Osmonds found a guiding light — Troy’s character. “We’ve tried to be better people,” Mary explains. “Kinder. More helpful. More like Troy.” Their family has adopted the motto, “Let’s Troy harder” — a reminder to live with compassion, grace, and gentleness, just as he did.
They speak of the waves of grief — some days better than others — and the importance of never taking a moment for granted. “Don’t go to bed without telling your kid you love them,” Mary urges.
With hope rooted in faith, they hold on to the belief that they will one day be reunited with their son. “He’s playing the great organ in heaven,” Merrill says with a soft smile. “He’s playing for the angels.”