Introduction
“You’re Gonna Miss Me When I’m Gone” (Live at Cain’s Ballroom) is a powerful showcase of Brooks & Dunn’s emotional depth and stage presence. Originally released in June 1995 as the fourth single off their third album Waitin’ on Sundown, the song was co-written by Kix Brooks, Ronnie Dunn, and acclaimed producer Don Cook. It marked a rare moment where Kix Brooks took the lead vocal—a departure from their usual formula—and soared to the top of the Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks chart, becoming one of the duo’s standout twenty No. 1 hits .
The lyrics confront a relationship on the brink, centering on a narrator who warns his partner that her treatment of him will lead to regret once he’s gone. It’s a poignant, carefully crafted country ballad praised by critics like Billboard’s Deborah Evans Price for its “excellent song craftsmanship with great production” .
Though originally studio-produced, the song received renewed life with live renditions. In 2005, Brooks & Dunn returned to their roots by performing it during an iconic concert at Cain’s Ballroom in Tulsa, Oklahoma—a venue synonymous with the raw energy of American country music . This version, later released in 2021, captures the duo’s on-stage chemistry and the intimate connection they share with their audience. Kix’s vocals resonate with honesty and grit, supported by Ronnie Dunn’s signature harmonies and dynamic musicianship. Fans and critics alike applauded the performance for its authenticity and emotional punch .
“You’re Gonna Miss Me When I’m Gone (Live at Cain’s Ballroom)” bridges the gap between polished studio production and visceral live performance. It reminds listeners why Brooks & Dunn remain a defining force in country music—able to tap into universal emotions, amplify them through their onstage synergy, and leave audiences with the undeniable truth that, indeed, they’ll miss them when they’re gone.
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Lyrics
(kix brooks/ronnie dunn/don cook)
I’m still hurtin’ from the last time
You walked on this heart of mine
I can’t find much to believe in
You let me down so many times
Heaven knows how i love you
But i’m tired of holding on
You better kiss me
’cause your gonna miss me when i’m gone
Not much chance we’re gonna make it
If i’m the only one who’s trying
You know i’m running out of reasons
And we’re running out of time
Someday, girl, you’re gonna wake up
And wonder what went wrong
You better kiss me
’cause your gonna miss me when i’m gone
You’re good at going through the motions
All i hear are alibis
Not i get this empty feeling
When i look into your eyes
I don’t see a love light shining
I don’t know what’s going on
You better kiss me
’cause your gonna miss me when i’m gone
You better kiss me
’cause your gonna miss me when i’m gone
You better kiss me
’cause your gonna miss me when i’m gone