Introduction
Joey+Rory: A Heartfelt Farewell with “When I’m Gone”
“When I’m Gone” is a poignant ballad recorded by the American country duo Joey + Rory, featured on their 2012 album His and Hers. The song was penned by Sandy Emory Lawrence, a close friend of the couple, who wrote it as a heartfelt tribute to her mother during her final days . Upon hearing the song, Joey and Rory were deeply moved and felt compelled to include it in their album, hoping it would offer solace to others facing the pain of impending loss.
The track is delivered from the perspective of someone preparing their loved one for life after their passing, offering comfort and reassurance. Joey Feek’s tender vocals imbue the song with a profound sense of sincerity and emotion. When filming the accompanying music video, the couple made the poignant decision for Joey to sing directly to Rory, envisioning a scenario where she would be the one departing. This artistic choice, though emotionally challenging, added a layer of authenticity to the portrayal
Tragically, in 2014, Joey was diagnosed with cervical cancer, and she passed away in 2016. In the wake of her illness and passing, “When I’m Gone” took on an even deeper resonance. Rory reflected on the song’s significance, expressing gratitude for its existence, as it allowed him to hear Joey’s comforting words whenever he needed them
Today, “When I’m Gone” stands as a testament to enduring love and the human capacity to find peace amidst grief. Its heartfelt message continues to resonate with listeners, offering comfort to those navigating the complexities of loss.
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Lyrics
A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fault that weighs you down
In spite of all the funeral songs
The birds will make their joyful sounds
You wonder why the earth still moves
You wonder how youll carry on
But youll be okay on that first day when Im gone
Dusk will come with fireflies and whippoorwill and crickets call
And every star will take its place
And silvery gown and purple shawl
Youll lie down in our big bed
Dread the dark and dread the dawn
But youll be alright on that first night when Im gone
You will reach for me in vain
Youll be whispering my name
As if sorrow were your friend
And this world so in the end
But life will call with daffodil
And morning glorious blue skies
Youll think of me some memory
And softly smile to your surprise
And even though you love me still
You will know where you belong
Just give it time well both be fine
When Im gone