Introduction
Brooks & Dunn’s haunting ballad “She Used to Be Mine” stands as a poignant centerpiece from their sophomore album Hard Workin’ Man (released February 23, 1993) . Written and sung by Ronnie Dunn, the song was released on August 30, 1993, as the album’s third single. Unlike the duo’s signature upbeat honky‑tonk numbers, this track reveals a more introspective and emotionally raw side of their artistry.
Following the string of chart‑toppers like “We’ll Burn That Bridge” and the invigorating title track “Hard Workin’ Man,” the release of “She Used to Be Mine” marked a turning point in Brooks & Dunn’s public image—showcasing their strength in vulnerability. The song debuted at #60 on Billboard’s Hot Country Singles on the week of September 4, 1993, and later climbed to No. 1 on both the Billboard and Canada RPM country charts , becoming their fifth No. 1 single.
Country Universe praised Ronnie Dunn’s “strongest vocal performance to date,” highlighting the “lonesome lament” that places full responsibility for the breakup squarely on the narrator’s shoulders . The song’s mournful lyricism, softened by weeping fiddle and plaintive guitar, crafts a miniature honky‑tonk tragedy in just under four minutes.
Decades after its release, “She Used to Be Mine” retains nostalgic and emotional resonance. In 2025, the duo re-recorded the song as a duet with Riley Green for their Reboot II album—bridging generations of country fans and reaffirming the track’s timeless ache .
Its enduring appeal lies in its universal themes of regret, love lost, and self‑reflection—delivered through Ronnie Dunn’s soulful, world‑weary voice. As one of Brooks & Dunn’s most memorable ballads, “She Used to Be Mine” endures as a testament to their depth beyond the dance tracks, forever etched in the canon of 1990s country music.
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Lyrics
She looked so good movin’ ‘cross the dance floor
Better than the day she left me
Arm in arm with somebody new
Holdin’ hands and laughin’ like we used to
I got my best smile on, but it’s no disguise
It don’t hide the pain in these eyes
I did her so wrong, for so long
Turned my back on her love, now she’s long gone
I did my part, to break her heart
She walked out on me, and tore my world apart
She used to be mine
Oh, she used to be mine
It’s taken every bit of strength that I have
To keep a hurt look off of my face
I can’t keep from lookin’ back over my shoulder
At the lucky man takin’ my place
Oh, if it weren’t for my pride, I’d probably take off runnin’
Guess what I’m feelin’, is what I got comin’
I did her so wrong, for so long
Turned my back on her love, now she’s long gone
I did my part, to break her heart
She walked out on me, and tore my world apart
She used to be mine
Oh, she used to be mine
Oh, I did her so wrong, for so long
I turned my back on her love, now she’s long gone
I did my part, oh, to break her heart
She walked out on me, and tore my world apart
She used to be mine
Oh, she used to be mine
Oh, she used to be mine
She used to be mine