George Strait – Check Yes Or No (Official Music Video)

Introduction

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George Strait’s “Check Yes or No,” written by Nashville songwriters Dana Hunt Black and Danny Wells, was released on September 18, 1995 as the lead single from his comprehensive box set Strait Out of the Box . Black had conceived the idea earlier and shared the chorus during a songwriting session with Wells, leading to their first major artist recording and chart-topping success .

Recorded at Emerald Sound Studios in Nashville on April 10, 1995, the song struck an immediate chord with Strait. He famously played it during a car ride to school to cheer up his grumpy son, Bubba—and that joyful reaction confirmed it was “a good one” .

Capturing the innocence of early crushes, the song narrates the story of childhood sweethearts who pass flirtatious notes in third grade, asking “check yes or no” to determine mutual affection. As adults, the couple remains deeply in love, proving the enduring magic of young romance . With its upbeat melody and heartfelt storytelling, “Check Yes or No” became one of Strait’s most beloved singles, earning a four-week run at No. 1 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart from November 11 to December 2, 1995 .

The song received critical acclaim, with reviewers praising Strait’s delivery as warm and charming, perfectly suited for country radio . It garnered the CMA and ACM Single of the Year awards in 1996 , and remains a radio staple, maintaining its status as a timeless country classic.

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Lyrics

It started way back in third grade
I used to sit beside Emmylou Hayes
A pink dress, a matching bow in her ponytail
She kissed me on the school bus but told me not to tell
Next day I chased her ’round the playground
‘Cross the monkey bars to the merry-go-round
And Emmylou got caught passing me a note
Before the teacher took it I read what she wrote
“Do you love me? Do you wanna be my friend?
And if you do
Well then don’t be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no”
Now we’re grown up and she’s my wife
Still like two kids with stars in our eyes
Ain’t much changed, I still chase Emmylou
Up and down the hall, around the bed in our room
Last night I took her out in a white limousine
Twenty years together she still gets to me
Can’t believe it’s been that long ago
When we got started with just a little note
“Do you love me? Do you wanna be my friend?
And if you do
Well then don’t be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no”
“Do you love me? Do you wanna be my friend?
And if you do
Well then don’t be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no”
Check yes or no
Check yes or no
Check yes or no
Check yes or no

You Missed

HE DIED IN 1996. SHE NEVER REMARRIED. AND FOR YEARS, LORETTA LYNN STILL SPOKE ABOUT HIM LIKE HE HAD ONLY JUST LEFT THE ROOM. People who visited Loretta Lynn’s ranch at Hurricane Mills often remembered how personal the place felt. It was not just a showplace for a country music legend. It was a home filled with old memories, quiet corners, and the kind of objects that seemed to carry a story. After Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn died in 1996, Loretta Lynn never remarried. Their marriage had lasted nearly 48 years, and it had never been simple. Doolittle drank. He cheated. They fought. Loretta Lynn was honest about that. But Loretta Lynn was also honest about something else: she loved him in a way that did not fit neatly into a pretty love story. That is what makes the image so hard to forget. An old porch at Hurricane Mills. An empty chair. A woman who had sung to millions, still carrying on a private conversation with the man who had broken her heart and helped build her dream. Maybe she laughed at him sometimes. Maybe she scolded him in the same voice she had used for decades. Maybe she just sat there with the silence, letting memory answer back. By the time Loretta Lynn reached her final years, Doolittle had been gone for more than a quarter of a century. But some loves do not disappear cleanly. They stay in the house. They stay in the songs. They stay in the chair beside you. Was it love that kept Loretta Lynn holding on for 26 years — or was it the kind of bond only a lifetime of joy, pain, forgiveness, and regret can explain?