Introduction
“When I’m Gone” is a poignant song by the country duo Joey + Rory, featured on their 2012 album, His and Hers. Written by their friend Sandy Lawrence, the song was inspired by Lawrence’s experience of losing her mother and serves as a heartfelt message from someone facing the end of life, reassuring their loved ones that they will be okay after their passing.
Upon hearing the song, Joey Feek was deeply moved by its emotional depth and the comfort it offered to those dealing with loss. The duo decided to include it in their album, hoping it would provide solace to others in similar situations.
The music video for “When I’m Gone” was filmed at the couple’s Tennessee farm. Initially, the plan was for both Joey and Rory to perform the song together. However, the directors suggested portraying Joey as the one departing, singing to Rory. Although hesitant at first due to the emotional weight, they embraced the concept to authentically convey the song’s narrative.
Tragically, in 2014, Joey was diagnosed with cervical cancer. Despite treatment, the cancer returned aggressively, leading to her passing in March 2016. The song and its accompanying video took on a profound significance during this period, mirroring the couple’s real-life journey. Rory reflected on this poignant connection, expressing gratitude for the song’s message and its role in helping him cope with Joey’s impending absence.
“When I’m Gone” stands as a testament to Joey + Rory’s commitment to recording songs that resonate deeply with life’s experiences. Its heartfelt lyrics and the Feeks’ authentic delivery have touched countless listeners, offering comfort and understanding in the face of loss.
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Lyrics
A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fault that weighs you down
In spite of all the funeral songs
The birds will make their joyful sounds
You wonder why the earth still moves
You wonder how youll carry on
But youll be okay on that first day when Im gone
Dusk will come with fireflies and whippoorwill and crickets call
And every star will take its place
And silvery gown and purple shawl
Youll lie down in our big bed
Dread the dark and dread the dawn
But youll be alright on that first night when Im gone
You will reach for me in vain
Youll be whispering my name
As if sorrow were your friend
And this world so in the end
But life will call with daffodil
And morning glorious blue skies
Youll think of me some memory
And softly smile to your surprise
And even though you love me still
You will know where you belong
Just give it time well both be fine
When Im gone