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Sad News: Rory Feek’s Heartbreaking Confession About His Daughter Indiana
Country singer and storyteller Rory Feek recently opened up about a deeply personal and emotional chapter in his life—the days following the loss of his wife, Joey, and the journey of raising their daughter Indiana, who was born with Down syndrome.
Joey Feek passed away on March 4 after a courageous battle with cancer, leaving behind her husband and their little girl, affectionately called “Indy.” That Easter marked the first holiday Rory and Indy spent without her. In a blog post, Rory revealed something both “sad and wonderful” at the same time: Indiana had not once asked for her mama since Joey’s passing.
“It’s almost as if she hasn’t noticed that she’s not here,” Rory wrote. “And that is so sad, and oh so wonderful, all at the same time.”
Rory explained that this was something he and Joey had hoped for—that Indy would have a strong and secure bond with her father after her mother was gone. When Joey realized she might not win her battle with cancer, she made a selfless choice: “He must become greater, and I must become less.” Though it was difficult, Joey believed this would give Indy the best chance to grow up feeling safe and loved.
At just two years old, Indy doesn’t yet understand the depth of what has happened. She doesn’t see the tears from strangers or grasp why her papa’s heart is heavy. But Rory is determined that one day she will know just how extraordinary her mother was. Through songs, videos, and photographs, he has been carefully preserving Joey’s memory, ensuring that Indiana will carry those moments in her heart.
“When the time is right,” Rory shared, “she will find them, and they will make her smile. Yes, she will remember her. I believe that.”
Joey passed away at the age of 40 in her hometown of Alexandria, Indiana, and was laid to rest nearby. In his reflection, Rory wrote: “For a little bit, we are family again. Indy is on Joey’s lap, and the world is right. Happy Easter, my love. We love you.”
A story of grief, love, and legacy—Rory’s words remind us of the power of memory, the resilience of children, and the lasting bond of family.