Introduction
“Cryin’ Game” is a song written by Jamie O’Hara and recorded by American country artist Sara Evans. Released on June 23, 1998, it served as the lead single from her second studio album, No Place That Far . The track showcases Evans’ commitment to traditional country sounds, blending neotraditional country elements with heartfelt storytelling.
The recording sessions for “Cryin’ Game” took place in March 1998 at Emerald Sound Studios in Nashville, Tennessee. Produced by Buddy Cannon and Norro Wilson, this collaboration marked Evans’ first experience working with both producers, setting the tone for the rest of the album . The song’s B-side, “Wait a Minute,” was also recorded during these sessions.
Upon its release, “Cryin’ Game” received positive reviews from critics. Billboard praised its traditional production and Evans’ vocal performance, noting the song’s strong lyrical content and potential for commercial success . AllMusic’s Thom Jurek highlighted the track as an upbeat number with a “country pub rock shuffle,” comparing its style to early works by Rosanne Cash
Despite critical acclaim, the song achieved modest chart success. It spent ten weeks on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart, peaking at number 56 in August 1998 . In Canada, it reached number 82 on the RPM Country Songs chart . While not a major hit, “Cryin’ Game” played a pivotal role in Evans’ career trajectory. The follow-up single, “No Place That Far,” became her first number one hit on the country charts, propelling the album to greater commercial success
Lyrically, “Cryin’ Game” addresses themes of honesty, trust, and self-respect in relationships. The protagonist demands sincerity and is unwilling to tolerate deceit, emphasizing a desire for genuine love and mutual support . This narrative resonated with listeners, reflecting universal experiences of heartache and the quest for authentic connections.
In retrospect, “Cryin’ Game” stands as a testament to Sara Evans’ dedication to traditional country music and her ability to convey deep emotional truths through her performances. The song’s blend of classic country instrumentation and relatable storytelling continues to resonate with audiences, solidifying its place in Evans’ musical legacy.
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Lyrics
[Chorus 1:]
Do me right don’t do me wrong
Treat me nice or I’ll be gone
I know where to find the door
Ain’t gonna play the crying game no more[x2]
[Verse 1:]
Tell me truth don’t tell me lies
Don’t wanna hear no alibis
I’ve been down that road before
Ain’t gonna play the crying game no more[x2]
[Chorus 2:]
Give me love I can believe in
Give me love I’m able to trust in
Show me you are ready and willing
To stand by me like I stand by you
[Verse 2:]
Bring me joy don’t bring me pain
I’ve seen enough of the pooring rain
Show me love’s what your living for
Ain’t gonna play the crying game no more[x2]
[Chorus 1:]
Do me right don’t do me wrong
Treat me nice or I’ll be gone
I know where to find that door
Ain’t gonna play the crying game no more[x4]